DAY IN MY LIFE: CHILD SUPPORT / CO-PARENTING DRAMA & CITY DAY W/ MY FRIEND! KRISTYN ALEXIS

DAY IN MY LIFE: CHILD SUPPORT / CO-PARENTING DRAMA & CITY DAY W/ MY FRIEND! KRISTYN ALEXIS

talk about it on her facebook i’m like nbaby i thought he was past that i’m like   baby i thought he was past that i’ve got n30 minutes if you want to spill your mind   give me all your reasons to i should take my time nused to have forever but you never count that much   hey what’s up guys it is saturday morning i nhope i’m in the middle of the camera okay i   think i’m in the middle of the camera i am getting nmyself together today y’all i went a whole week   basically just being myself you know it nwas like super natural no makeup no hair   almost no nothing like i had a couple days where ni really didn’t even get dressed and i believe the   saying look good feel good so today we’re getting ncute okay i gotta get myself together make sure i   still got it and all that good stuff i ordered nsome more of my new foundation so i wanted to   mention this really quickly because wait it’s nover here because i have been using becca for   a minute i’ve been getting so many questions nabout my skin lately and about my foundation   i use becca the color that i use is maple i nlove it i love this stuff it’s so freaking bomb   and i’m gonna put it on with my little nsponge that i just cleaned real quick   so i just basically wanted to catch up with you nguys real fast because i feel like i haven’t like   talked about my life lately and maybe this could nbe kind of a cool opportunity to catch up with   you and just kind of update you on what is going non with my life especially those of you who have   found me from either like my divorce videos or you nalso have custody situations that you deal with   and you know you just kind of are working nthrough like what do you do i feel like   until your kids are 18 there’s always something nthat you’re working through processing through   even when you have a pretty good relationship nwith your kids other parents so my situation   has been kind of interesting we’ve been obviously nyou know we don’t interact with exceptional like   passing the kids off or if you have to change na day or whatever but other than that we really   don’t talk that much um we had some issues that nwe didn’t agree upon with covid and masking and   y’all probably can assume which side of nthat debate i am on we also have just had   some challenges because since we have been home nthe kids haven’t been going to after school or   before school which was the biggest expense to ntheir budget the budget obviously has changed   significantly and i’m still paying child support nfor the old budget and for those of you who don’t   know my story don’t know the back story i’ve had nchild support but we do have 50 50 custody so you   know i know a lot of people get confused about nthat child support is based on for most states   the the uh budget of the kids like the kids nexpenses and they basically add up everything   out of everybody’s income and see who has the nhigher proportion of income and that person pays   for the kids budget in proportion to the npercentage that they are higher than the other   parents so it’s pretty simple um you know but if nyou’re not familiar with that it could be kind   of confusing like how the heck are you doing that nand you have custody because that’s the that’s the   biggest question i always get like some people nwere like she don’t have custody because she   because she pays and it’s like no that’s nnot how that works okay but okay go off you   know what i’m saying people love being nloud and wrong i just have to say that   but you know it’s all good it’s all good so yeah nthat’s my situation it’s been kind of interesting   we are trying to figure out you know what the nsituation is going to look like moving forward   we’ve also had other issues that we’re nworking through you know i don’t really   want to go into details i you know i try not nto say too much on here because i feel like   you know you you don’t want to obviously say too nmuch and like regret ever what you share but i   do feel like my story can be helpful to other npeople who go through parenting situations and   it’s a challenge and honestly for me i just think nthat the thing that makes this easier is i feel   like that’s how i should say it is limiting our ninteractions they even have apps now where you can   talk through the app and it like makes it really neasy to minimize the interaction that you have   to have with the other person i also like i use nthe guidelines for everything it’s pretty clear   in the guidelines everything you’re supposed nto do for every scenario so if you follow that   thing should be pretty easy you know what i nmean and then if you were married you should   have an agreement coming out of your divorce nthat should basically govern everything like   the kids religion like everything so you know nit’s a process it’s a challenge y’all but at   the same time you got to stay positive through it nall because i remember man for me and you know i   know there’s not necessarily a lot of people out nthere because i don’t think i’ve met a lot of   people like me i have met a few women like me who nare on subscribers and who follow me here on my   channel similar financial situations and whatnot nbut you know i know i tend to be the minority   and i think it can be um stressful for both nsides it’s funny though whenever i talk about   this on my channel i always get a lot of guys who ncome in and be like oh it’s about time oh shoot   and you know it’s to be expected because i feel nlike it’s like the age-old debate is you know   child support and whatnot so it is what it is but ni guess so that is um something i’m processing i’m   dealing with which i think has added to my stress nbecause i told you guys i’ve been kind of just a   little stressed out lately and it’s majority of it nhas been work but i feel like i just have like all   these little pockets of things that i’m dealing nwith right now and it has been a lot you know   but the key when you’re going through a lot is nto stay positive stay focused on the the other   side because nothing lasts forever whenever you’re nin it it does not last forever you know what i’m   saying like everything is temporary you know i njust always remember what the good or the bad   you know when you’re excited you’re going nthrough something positive and something exciting   or if you’re going through something bad and nnegative the good or the bad nothing lasts forever   so you know if you can just make it through those ndays make it through those nights you will get to   the other side so i’m about to get ready i want to nget cute today and just build up my um my mental   space i want to make myself feel good because nlike i said look good feel good so we’re going   to get cute and i’m just putting on something warm ni have on this hot miami styles dress i actually   wore this on our honeymoon i don’t think i’ve worn nthis since but it’s a really comfortable dress and   it’s hot outside so i need something like this nto um you know be cute and comfy not too hot   so i’m going to finish getting ready because i ndon’t want to mess up my eyes but i do want to   give you guys like just a little bit of background nand if you’re dealing with this dealing with   something like this whether it be child support npaying child support whether you a guy a girl   just dealing with parenting situations like just nbe level-headed about everything be thoughtful you   know what i’m saying don’t say anything you you nwill regret don’t text anything you will regret   don’t let people get the best of you because npeople will try especially people who know   you really really good but you got to be smart you nknow what i’m saying you got to be real real smart   so let me get ready and i will talk to y’all in na minute my makeup is done and i’m about ready   to go but i wanted to show you my outfit wait this nlighting’s horrible i want to show you my outfit   real quick before i bounce out of here i’m just nwearing something comfortable perfect for this   heat and cute okay i’m going for cute today this ndress i got in wore to brian and i’s honeymoon it   has been almost two years since i wore but it was nperfect for a really hot day so i decided to wear   it again it’s from hot miami styles absolutely nlove it and then the bag this is my little louis   vuitton over the shoulder bag which is perfect nfor days like this and then i’m wearing my movado   we’re wearing the movado watch i’ve had this nfor a while i believe brian gave this to me if   i’m not mistaken and then we’re wearing the bangle nthat i got that i was telling you guys about from   the award and i have on my christian dior nnecklace this is the look for the day i like it   you know what i’m saying comfortable and cute nand now let’s go ahead and get about this house   the first stop i need to make nis to get some braiding hair are we lost are we not are we real are nwe turning to dust do you feel what that song is such a vibe we’re njust gonna do one of these look how long that is y’all ni hope i can make it work   and i’m doing this in my car oh nmy goodness this is not gonna show pray for me from the future i think i nneed to split this in half this braid   is about to be not that thick nmaybe i should do two of these no this is fine wait i feel like i need two of these because this might be a thin braid no it’ll be fine okay so i’m about to speed this nup and we’re going to turn on um my mariah carey because i’ve been jamming her song   i like love this song i hope nthis ponytail’s in the middle make sure my door is locked npeople are running around   it just stays the same again okay that’s cute that’s cute and i think nit doesn’t look bad that it’s not too thick   the end came out okay even though i would nhave loved to put a little rod on it   but y’all see how easy that was nwe just fed it into my braid i feel cute now okay okay now i need to find what i’m nabout to do so let me go to facebook and go check this flyer again so ntoday is having taste of the arts wait taste of the arts the comfort zone has an art nshow and the farmer’s market oh that’s over   okay so taste of the art y’all i really nlike this braid this is freaking cute   and then when i get tired of it i can make nit into a bun but that’s so freaking cute y’all gotta do a braid okay this was seven dollars nfor the hair and i got the extra long it was 72   inches finish length is a 36 inch braid yaw this nis cute okay where am i going um oh the landing   prominent park okay we’re going for food nfirst so let’s go look for food let’s go are we lost are we not i’ll be real are we nturning to does do you feel what i think   but you’re playing a game   sing it to my face have i changed so much and i’m with my friend nita but nnina’s not getting on camera today   so we’re about to have a fun um a fun little   get-together little girl time and i’m drinking nwhat is this again a raspberry beret so cheers cheers you order these it is to be out there like we decided to make our next stop over at the nbradley and when i tell you guys this place is so   cute the bradley is owned by co-founder nof vera bradley and when i tell you guys   it is such a cute boutique hotel if nyou come through fort wayne or you   are in the fort wayne area make sure nyou go by and check this place out   as well as make your way upstairs to the rooftop nbar where we went and we had an absolute blast oh   so on the rooftop the waiter recommended their nmojito and the chips and guac so that’s what   we ended up having and i have to say he did nnot let us down so if you go to the rooftop   make sure you try the chips and guac as well nas their mojitos they were very very good and then we made it over to nawa i have to nsay you guys it is so good now if you were   following one of my recent videos i went here nwith brian and we had a blast the food is good   the drinks are even better so definitely nif you go over to downtown fort wayne   you gotta get on the reservation list for nawa nand for sure get the chicken satay it is delicious and we finished our night with this ride and i nhave to say you guys i was not expecting this and   we ended up doing three rides with him we had this npoor guy driving us all over city so we got to do   a full tour of downtown fort wayne so this ended nup being an amazing night and i just recommend if   you haven’t toured your own city go ahead and get nthat booked make it happen okay this turned out to   be an amazing weekend for me and i really hope you nguys enjoyed going along for the ride literally
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DAY IN MY LIFE: CHILD SUPPORT / CO-PARENTING DRAMA & CITY DAY W/ MY FRIEND! KRISTYN ALEXIS

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