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[Music] thank god it’s friday welcome to the show i am mariah for loving brown as always i have the ladies with me hello nima akasha good morning how are you doing good morning i’m fine i’m grateful to god like i am just grateful for good for life and everything so uh my mom is visiting absolutely excited grandma’s nice weekend ground myself good food some good food no ah no my mom is not of the age where she cooks for me anymore oh okay so last night i finished cooking i’m excited to be the one cooking i feel like was dieter no no because it’s an overcaring mother none of our children not dse is it outside it’s pampered and kid and it’s a privilege to be able to pay attention yes so i’m happy and i want to do some geriatrics with her oh yes so that’s part of where i’m going okay nice geriatric assessment yes like to have that space yourself let’s be individualistic anyways i’m good so yesterday something happened scary happened in my area i think he also made the papers on western avenue just close to the stadium robbers went on a rampage they attacked people in traffic first of all i think what our letter does was um just lots of noise and then gunshots you know we’re not sure but then there’s a video that was made and it was that roberts had stopped um commuters and um usually there’s traffic lights on that stretch of the room but it was completely dark so i’m thinking my opinion that maybe those gunshots was to shoot down the lights they said there were no police officers there no one there and was scary people were running into the estate because of here please legal state government we need to do something on that stretch of the road for a long time there hasn’t been any traffic on that road because the bridge was being worked on so does diversion but since it’s been opened the traffic is back and bad people have decided to use it to you know take advantage of it let’s just say they should do for the whole of lagos yeah thank you thanks to tvc wardrobe uh fine so yesterday my son sent me a list of all the things he wants me to make for him that he was tired of american food he was tired of it so he sent me videos of jollof rice and fried rice or further rice a stew and then i say mommy please entertain the kitchen yourself and make it i want to eat your food and all the stuff so today i’m going to be cooking until the middle of the night i’ve sorted out everything i need to cook so once i get home now rest a bit and then i start my cooking and store it in the fridge so that when they get back they will eat mommy’s food and specifically said mommy nobody else should make this food enter the kitchen you was really crying i’m like for real wow imagine that you know they know um may be nice so they’re looking for because they’re not they didn’t go to somebody’s house they know so american hotels people start serving nigerian cuisine because nigerians will test yourself serve americans i’m doing well i’m doing well i mean it’s i’m so happy that you know school is on break you know it’s just so good that yeah i have to work from break i don’t have to worry about assignments okay you know and it’s just like just working on my work and i thank god you know just like that we are going in okay my sister i mean this weekend i was like don’t you feel happy that there’s no school i mean they had type of family i mean so happy so i’m staying up with the kids my daughter is taking this photography thing yeah so i told you something i think if you don’t worry about maybe we will fix you to get to this people talk to you i belong there so please get your vaccine today as soon as you can get your vaccine i would have to find out if they’re gonna start rolling out i know they’ve received it but i think they’re waiting for a few other things but the moment they start please put it in mind to get your vaccines as soon as possible let’s go on a quick break when we return we go through the front pages of the papers stay with us we’ll break back [Music] stay tuned your view will be right back okay let’s start with the nation in security buhari threatens removal of military chiefs picture here of a young young man who has been prayed for by the chairman christian association of nigeria he was one of the victims of the the happenings in the happens in jos played to state i’m attacking my arrest on the rich herders seizes 49 cows in undo kobe 19 cases rise by 97 percent in three days on was a victim president okay’s review of grazing reserves in 25 states thanks for its deal it’s under close efcc watch and pia frontier business fund to cover cross river and an umbra okay let’s start with the major headlines yes so the president after the national security council meeting he is the nsa was just relating what he said he said he had you know addressed all the members of the council and talked about how security must walk under his watch that he cannot leave nigeria unsecured and that that he will consider a failure he’s reject the security apparatus before and he can do it again he’s willing to do it again but then the nsa then said and in his review he felt encouraged and also encouraged because he was happy so far their achievements he cited the the conversion or repentance of some of the boko haram members as part of their achievements and you i just want that but the same thing was it wasn’t really bad in the same report the former president obasanjo said you know it’s bad but it’s redeemable there’s still room for improvement it’s not exactly that we cannot be compared to afghanistan that was the right islam is the minister of the extreme information okay another story yes i have so um here it says buhari okay the review of grazing reserves in 25 states just giving us information that he has approved the recommendation by the committee and the recommendation really is just to remind us among other things is the collection of field data on 368 grazing reserves 65 states to assess encroachment and encroaches stakeholders engagement and sensitization it also had recommended geo-mapping and geo-tagging of sites analysis of findings and report preparations and also um it’s reduced the number of grazing sites because of security concerns of course in many of the areas so these are recommendations but he has a conflict of laws here the land use act has slowly put all lands within states the governors of the state thank you if we want to go back to grazing reserves which we’re mostly addicts of military era i don’t know if the laws now is it backed by the constitution some of these plans have not been gazetted so this committee is also supposed to visit them i’m seeing clash and i’m just hoping that one of these governments will be like a wiki right and test it in court so that i was also saying that we’re going backwards i thought we had moved the conversation to having to help build branches for this business we were talking about grazing reserves let me just find that relationship so what happened was that a woman i think mrs victoria 70 said that she had seen a man and two sons teenagers are bringing 49 cows into her farm and didn’t have vegetables and all her her produce and then she tried to get them to stop telling her to tell them tell her sons to to stop the castle eating and then they waved their cutlasses at her and threatened her when she knew that it was trouble then she felt threatened she rushed back into the house right after looking for material and they came and accosted them and sent them off so the point is that according to them open grazing is banned so they felt really comfortable that they were there long enough for her to go and get a motivation infections continue to rise according to the ncdc uh it has risen to 97 percent in three days they said the cases increased from 584 on monday to 1148 cases on wednesday and the death also increased as i think uh 17 persons died in the last three days so the report is given that from august 9 to 18 6 507 new infections were recorded and 73 percent uh death so there’s also this worry that in acquire bomb and river states there’s an increase uh in cases i think um okay so acqui bomb recorded 980 cases why river states recorded 1365 cases in just two weeks so this is just purchasing the fact that this thing is here this is more like a third phase we need to follow all the protocols we need to protect ourselves make sure that we wear our masks whether you are vaccinated or not we just need to protect ourselves getting serious the punch pdp piece packs crumbles the passenger second is in closed door meeting human interest story hoodlums raw pos operator of four million naira burn crops kill uber driver police detained enslaved esm members girlfriend ig orders probe buhari’s security strategy is working he won’t leave office of failure says nsa only battles five suits 100 apc members seek removal airport concession will fail legal tussle imminence is labeled pia oil firms equities belong to three tiers fg assure state okay which terror are we taking in punch let me take the um inspector general of police who is has asked for the investigation into the unlawful arrest and detention of a 21 year old girl called glory o’colie by intelligence response team in imo state on the june 17th he said that she was arrested because she’s the girlfriend to an es eastern security network member and we’re trying to get to that member and they arrested her meanwhile her family had been looking for her all this time they didn’t know that she had been arrested they were worried they had put up you know information out there just for one person who had been locked up with her to have come out and then he was the one that told her family that he saw her in there they went to the police and they found that all this time she had been cooking and cleaning for the members of of the police and that um in trying to get her out they had collected over 220 000 naira from the family luckily a humanitarian organization and human rights organization had put the information out so investigation is going to what had caused her you know detention and all the monies in between that had been paid it’s really annoying and it’s so angry i think those um uh security officials who have kept this young girl for this long should be um should be dealt with because this is against the law this is against her fundamental human rights so if you arrest her for a crime let us know the crimes interesting story so the police in ogon states have arrested four members of a syndicate who allegedly robbed a a pos operator abiodun with debum four million killed him and burnt his cops so the suspects are king they salud delilah loma biodua queola johnson [ __ ] and jamie aquiola so uh according to them so when they were picked first of all uh they had a transaction with uh the pos dealer a day before for 1.5 million naira and then they called back that they wanted to have a transaction of about 4 million so this guy took the 4 million and went to meet them and then he disappeared so after i well the salesperson just realized that my guy’s not coming back and they went to the police and laid a complaint and so investigation started and they found out that this guy has been killed robbed of that formula killed and left an uncompleted building the investigations continued and they found the person who they were tracing went to hide in a kitty to hibernate after a while went to uh for the law proceeding for sunday boho in bernard republic and then on his way back the police laid ambush for him and caught him and then he confessed that this is what they usually do they also do that to uber drivers as well where they take you to a certain location kill you and take your car so the four of them have been arrested the investigation is only justification that’s just the word out there for operators of this kind of business people come to your business place for such an amount of money you don’t take money out of this place is the least you can do for your security i was going to take the story because yeah i took the story on the airport concession yesterday and uh we were talking about the fact that um the federal government had was planning to concession the four major airports but labor have the unions have um said that this move is going to cause a legal test so it’s not going to work according to them there’s a lot of baggage backlog of baggage that these this concessionaires are not aware of and it’s important that um federal government tackle those issues before the concession these airports according to them says that um they straight this the concession exercise is carrying too much baggage and they are not they cannot succeed it should not work because of the too much baggage again however our views will be documented and unveiled by next week tuesday so according to a lot of liabilities and labor will definitely bring this out uh so that the continental concession has no unaware of the various issues that have been happening with the airports before taking it on let’s go on a quick break when we come back and continue with the review stay with us we’ll break back [Music] stay tuned your view will be right back [Music] at tvc communications we’re all about our audience millions of viewers listeners and readers every day all around nigeria [Music] our two tv stations are among the most watched in nigeria tvc news is our word-winning 24-hour national and international news channel headquartered the year in lagos broadcasting live from our custom-built state-of-the-art news headquarters pvc the top-rated family entertainment channel is the place for fun music and information with our breakfast show wake up nigeria the all-female chat show your view the best soaps and dramas from gnarly bali and hollywood music and entertainment blast curtsy splash and of course award-winning news and current affairs it is all here with these bureau and 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market share but this is just the start of our journey as we plan to add even more services to entertain and inform our ever-growing audience thanks for being part of the tvc communications story [Music] how we’re doing guys is the makeup in progress makeup check are the scripts on the prompter script check are we set in the pcr all time and place pcr check clock is taking time as racing lights up plans all set 120 minutes of heart entertainment [Music] we are ready for the mission [Music] uh wow wow [Music] [Music] doubt and fear doesn’t occur at the canvas it shows in the canvas it shows the connection of raw other material slabs stroked and molded at a pace provided by the doubt and fear every move way in the struggle of one to the other merging the past to the present brushstrokes of colors seen but not known for when the wailing stops the pieces settle down in abject beauty erected for a century of a century speaking advocating protesting as the archer meant to be thanks for staying with us moving on now to daily sun outrage over plan to turban sultan of shua arab of edu arab of edo defend democracy atiku family others urge nigerians psc wait for abba kiari report sets up in-house panel janissa muhammad died of covet 19 related complications says family pia enjoy youth spit fire security buhari talks tough in meeting with service chiefs efcc stops ex abia governor taog from traveling abroad okay major headline nima yeah yes sir so this outrage in those and on facebook people are green and disagreeing on um the intention of some group of people to turban someone called idris adan adano as the sultan of shua arab in edu states but thankfully very well thank you very pleased with the governor the government of veda state has issued their warning that this is a security threat to the states we have our traditional rules and under the adjusted traditional rulers and chiefs law it is an offence for anyone to proclaim himself or allow himself to be proclaimed as the order of any traditional title to not recognize of you know under the said law or without the approval of the appropriate authorities within the states and i thank you please go back to bono and your historical kingdom chiefs within states so we have like have the history and the people that live there to come from anywhere and recognize another place is to sort of use soap you know i’ve always queried all those sponsors within lagos how did this happen so please i don’t know i don’t want to wake up by any i’m not apologetic because something’s quite particular especially they ten they look most of them look quite um so they’re tall they’re big fulani like yes it’s only the our chicken dome yeah among the esa after my kingdoms the hazard my village we have oba danisi we have our histories well tied to the beginning kingdom thank you very much too anyway okay so i was go ahead yeah so the uh economic and financial crimes commission efcc they stopped the former governor of abia state senator theodor ogie from traveling abroad so he was um stopped at innamd international airport abuja where he wanted to board the plane to leave the country according to him was going to vacation and his medical checkup and so they took him to the efcc office to query him he went with his son who happened to be the speaker of abia state house of assembly uh honorable chinese do orgy so when they got there they took their passport and said that they’ve there’s been this allegations levied against them i think according to um fight corruption fight corruption save nigeria group since 2017 and they have a case to answer on uh misappropriation of states fund so the accusation is basically that um the fact he was receiving as a governor he was receiving 500 million every month which was supposed to be for security votes and that was our site the security votes used for the architecture security architecture of the states so they are you know questioning him for that he sees the passport they said he should come back today to see if he can get a passport let me just add to that so the allegations against him are that he diverted 383 billion from the revenue of the federation accounts he diverted 55 billion excess from the excess crude revenue 2.3 billion from sharpie and 1.8 billion from the ecological funds and is also alleged to have used his sons to fleece the state of these monies yeah sometimes i just wonder how these things happen anyways there was an event that um former vice president of nigeria article and the governor of ekiti state attended was a book launch i think uh say the book is remaking nigeria 60 years and 60 voices and then atiku was saying what we always always say every single day that um that we need to restructure nigeria he said that i just restructured it in the manner that allows various segments to develop they are on their own pace and not be held back by the center or other segments and that we must defend our democracy governor firemen also said that he had nigerians to uphold the message of a second stanza of national anthem just to build a nation where peace and justice shall reign and say that there’s no country in the world that is happy with the current standards that they have that every country is a work in progress and we must work to make it better for other people our focus should be about how we can reinvent our nation work for prosperity so they’re saying something that we already know but um yes yes so governor wiki has signed into law he’s the bills on that and opened the prohibition of open grazing and talking on the vats he says really that um when all these agencies collect instead of the states they impoverish the state they might emasculate the state financially and that’s why you find state governors you know states running to the center capping hand begging for um funds but that if they are allowed to collect their taxes thankfully and luckily for river state and his people he’s a good representative of his support for their rights and so he gave an example he says imagine i give a contract run into 300 billion there’s a vat that seven point five percent vat and that money instead of coming back and to the state foreign government how does it make sense meanwhile the allocation that comes from federal government it’s not even coming again like it used to so what these agencies are doing are actually impoverishing these states yes okay moving on to the nigerian tribunal let’s find a stove not taken aftermath of clash or your local government chairman asked immigration officers to vacate offices weaker signs bill on vat’s collection into law there will be no certain sure okay i’ve talked that’s funny story we’re not taking four died a thousand farmlands 200 houses destroyed as flood ravages to niger local government areas international oil camp companies on ddc over four billion dollars is a fabio huari moves to re retrieve the 368 grazing reserves in 25 states uh police commission sets a panel to study reports on chiari efcc arrests exabia governor orji at abuja airport and over 3 billion are paid to kidnappers as ransom in southwestern’s garnier dams okay there’s something most of the stories okay yes when nigest it has been reported that four people have been confirmed dead and many others missing this was after a flood had ravaged two local government areas in its machego and contagora local government areas of the state about a thousand farmlands were submerged over 200 houses were destroyed the director of niger state emergency agency has said has confirmed this but they say they’re investigating to find out if it was due to the rains or if there’s a dam that had been open so that they understand yeah the source of that flooding that’s what’s going on now it’s really really really sad yeah quickly local government uh clash there was um a clash in oil states between the immigration officers and local government chairmen and the story wasn’t really clear about what happened but it seemed like he went to their office for whatever and they had already deflated his tire that’s the local government coming from the north uh local government in uh oyo state but not local government area mr sahib or ladayo and so they had deflated this tire so he called the vulcanizer to you know ramp up his tire so that he can drive out of the place and then they told him somebody just came to him and told him that he has to leave right now they started attacking his boss tear gas was used on him he had bruises and he started attacking him as well he had bruises on his body and so the local government chairman you know your state are asking all the immigration officers across the 33 local governments to vacate the states and they have to fish out those perpetrators who abused the local commencement let’s quickly run to daily trust find a story if not taken hush puppy police commission begins fresh poop of abba kyari glamour as buhari’s son went kind of princess today we love yeah for pictures please whoever that’s the thing i want to think yes so i mean we have to take the story um our president she’s a princess no she is a princess our president’s son is getting married today to the daughter of the um one of the emmys and kind of beachy her name is zara as well that’s his sister’s name yeah so the everybody they say all road leads to cano today so we’ve been singing yeah we’ve seen the pre-wedding pictures he’s so pretty he looks so good they look like they’re really um yes i think they are going to make really beautiful everything they have very pretty cute cases failure cause of fresh gridlock a long mild shooting campaign i’m sure nima has a story pst sets up panel to investigate fbi’s indictment of about chiari not strike why i invoked no work no rude ng tells buhari okay let’s start with thinking okay so um just the usuals there you know why he’s failing why the e-collab system that has mandated to start august 16 is not working vanguard reporters went on site and saw that despite this order that youtube must be you know um deployed in getting to the ports they see trucks pay and pass through and so their traffic but the person who spoke on the anonymity for last message that that they’re doing their possible best that they’ve left the service lane for car users but the middle lane the express major express is for trucks and they’re ensuring that they move as quickly as possible they are supposed to get an access through the ecosystem before they go and they’re trying to do their possible best to see that there’s no traffic like that but they should please extend that work australia last month please extend it to the terminals on the older jaw roads because this wasn’t funny staying in traffic for the past week that’s all we can take i thought it took about caribou we ran out of time now just to say that i finally have been set up to probe the um allegations from fbi yeah let’s go on a break now 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exciting news for you you asked for it and you got it your favorite breakfast show your view will be going to two hours we’re gonna have in-depth analysis of the newspaper review and more conversations on the hot topics the latest of your viewers and i will be staring up our guests to get an in-depth into all the various topics and you are viewers who have the opportunity to call in and share your views after all it’s your view join us on your view 9am to 11am for a fantastic conversation don’t miss it [Music] thanks to staying with us so after weeks and months of controversy concerning the ulu of worry finally the king will be crowned tomorrow and it’s interesting that we just want to it was interesting for us to share this story and discuss it because in this time of division amongst nigerians in security issues happening all across the country it’s an important time to remember that listen we are a people and we should celebrate each other so we’re going to take the next few moments to review the coronation tomorrow and help nigeria celebrate in the display of culture yeah and and and uh appreciate the diversity that we have so we’re gonna show you a clip of the promotional video and then um bringing our guests to discuss with us what their plans are towards the coronation tomorrow watch this [Music] oh oh [Music] join us on the 21st of august 2021 as we celebrate so the shaqiri people will be hosting let me say the world as they crown their king tomorrow so i mean these are exciting well we’re trying to get our guests i’d like to hear the ladies your thoughts on this correlation mima i’m coming to you because i know you love culture you love tradition you love you know you know you like this kind of thing that gets you excited so throughout tomorrow for this and i’m going to be talking to my children about it i love that my parents used to talk to me about it there’s one language my neighbor who is from chicago used to say when do you nasty white man now we first see white smiles the kingdom was known to to be the first to interface with the foreigners and not be not totally before slave and colonization so they had their princes educated in portugal they did trade and all of those things and the reason why they do their coronation at the ud shakira is something that amazes me so there’s a bigger place where they do all that events the colors the richness and the loyalty of their people everybody that is officially now i want to say among me to travel all right so i’m told now we have our guest the president of the niger football federation a major pinnick in the building good morning sir are you there morning how are you great great i know you’re from michigan and this is one of your major events rightly right right happening no no no no no i’m worried okay so tell us about this event um okay kingdom so tell us about the events happening tomorrow i know there were lots of controversies that trailed this and a lot of people had questions about um the fact that they said the crown was stolen i mean so did we get the crown back or we get the new crown what exactly is happening tomorrow um i can tell you that i just stepped into my room in worry let’s have two minutes ago because of you guys and we just went for a procession um a seven kilometer position with your mobile with your gaming himself uh you you’ll see the time today i think it’ll be in the social media at the moment that is how you test your popularity among your uh among your subjects and um today i’m supposed to be possibly the last day that he came before by god’s grace will be crowned tomorrow so we went around the major streets of worry working the uh yamaha itself led this procession through the major streets you know it is about seven and a half kilometer walk you know and you can see where people were coming out from their homes old young you know healing and be happy and you can see the excitement you know so you can see that we where we are in this in the in the universe we’re having it right you know because like i said and i want to was born was born into undiluted royalty you know he was born into it it’s very rural very majestic you need to say you know that has been i’ve known it for about 30 years and that same admiration you know right when he was a young you see a lot everything has to do with royalty is all encapsulated if you like around it so right okay we are very happy because listen it was groomed it was not church it was uh conditioned to be a king is our own equivalent of prince william and we are right okay how important is tomorrow going to be for the average shakira person did you can you get me sir how important is the coronation for the average ishakiri person well i is is quite significant is beyond significant is beyond historic i i can’t i’m trying to get an identity to qualify it but i cannot find but i can tell you that it is extremely extremely important and i pray that you’ll be the disability last nation i will see in my lifetime i’m 50. i believe it’s going to rain for a very very long time this will be the third correlation i’ll be witnessing and i pray i don’t witness another so we are really and truly excited about this and we believe that um we have gotten it right because it is not about him it’s about his subject it’s about the kingdom right yeah okay let me get a few more questions for you sir he’s quite enlightened from a royal family and he’s got real blood all around me and what you see as um um bickering you know it is not it is not the first time in 1951 even though i wasn’t born if i may recall with our history books even the king the original first that second that was to be crowned king he was in the first child at that point you know but it was to be crowned based on the the selection from the entire process but his own brother was there he went he was standing in condition and then got him arrested chased him away and the irregular decision was installed as you look for in 1951 you know but at the end of the day they made this and even those people that were antagonistic to that who belong foreign at that point became exposed as allies right so and i know i’m about i know he he preaches peace he loves business we will not discriminate all right let me get a few more questions for you sir he’s bringing everybody on okay sir mr pinnock we want to enjoy this ishaqiri culture so well look what are we looking forward to when it comes to the dressing the food is it a night long event is it three days is it seven days what about the women what would they be wearing those are the sort of exciting things yeah you need to see the impromptu procession you need to see it but people came back came out in their numbers you know very beautifully but tomorrow we’re going to start at nine o’clock very colorful portrait data everybody like my family we have our own portugal my company brown here we are on portugal wow and they all if you go to the jetty now you see a lot of footprint you know and designed in all kinds of colors okay from there we go they got the crowning in odessa already we have a market that can sit about three thousand persons is the area 25 by 200 thousand length and breadth and where the overflows then you know we have individual things to accommodate guests like mine and other people and um is is something that we are really really happy to be you know and we know that we are so away from many nigerians right i am going to graduation tomorrow okay two former presidents and the uh president and the president ambassador wow they are scheduled to attend an area let me just get one more question for you so sir a lot of issues preceded this coronation we had some grievances from do you know butchery people you know different are we looking at everybody’s resolving these issues out of court and accepting this king who artedly trust me trust me listen listen listen i’ve told you in the past it happened and and everything went smooth so i can tell you we are looking beyond that if you listen to my uh interview three months ago i was quite emphatic when i said only 21st is sacrosanct and beyond the 21st there will be reconciliation you know because that’s what the shakira’s are known for you know believing thriving in peace and harmony we don’t want to thrive in you know any form of animals anymore in any form of division so i want to leave that it might be ambiguous but let’s leave it at that but i can tell you at the end of the day once the king is crying tomorrow did he answer my question sir concerning the crown do we have a new crown where is the old crown he didn’t find the crown that was missing don’t listen listen we can’t be moving with time we can be moving with time and possibly there are times where you have a brand new crowd you know but for the for the sake of history you can also maintain what you have and keep it in the archive so i can tell you don’t wait until you see tomorrow the crowd will be coming out tomorrow yeah yeah mr penny how do we greet the new king shaqiri well you guys can watch it how do we greet them mr phoenix we want to enjoy this culture now how do we greet the new king initiative how do we greet the new king in shakiri in the language what do we say what to greet him at first he went through the regals the irrudiment and the critical time of country going to each other and back once it gets into that enclave and comes out from scotland it’s referred to as a gaming [Music] which the spiritual and the ancestral country or enclave of the shakiri people and come out on state then as soon as it comes out the chief priest will be the first person committee and if this morning so let me ask you a question sir because we’re trying to learn from you so are we going to see him emerge after the priest has seen him are we all going to see him as he merges together on live tv or we just see the prince come out after everybody assuming all right we have an idea what we’re going to be recording like there are procedures for ceremonies tomorrow you know in this also people’s heart will die would i starve for office he will have to select him for example tomorrow you will not hear his new appellation his new title do not worry whatever whatever whatever whatever the second by tomorrow i think you need to know that you know but all right and um the crowning with very rich history dating about 480 years yes you know and it’s one very unique very unique ethnic group right why why so because it’s one of the few ethnic groups that can boost of one king one language and one culture all right thank you very much thank you mr penick for sharing this with us we just we we we’re excited about the old celebration and we thought was important for us to give it a few minutes to discuss it and i just can see that there’s beauty in our culture our differences and there’s beauty in our diversity that it’s important that we all recognize each other love each other 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to leave the relationship because of the situation of anger now how do we manage anger because every relationship always experience some form of anger you can call us on zero eight one two seven zero five three six eight seven zero nine one three nine zero seven six nine four eight you can also send us messages on youtube and facebook we’ll be happy to take your messages so getting angry is normal as we know but in relationships even in friendships managing anger i just don’t also focus about marriage issues or more friendships you know you’re angry how how have you managed your anger and how has it affected negatively sometimes your relationships with people yeah i don’t know who like to go first you see okay i could go first so um [Laughter] anger is just a form of emotion like every other emotion so there are different emotions we have jealousy envy we have uh forgiveness those are emotions you know and anger is just one of them and there’s so many but um what i see is that because we have not grown into or we were not taught let me use that we’re not taught how to handle our emotions whenever they come we see that we keep having the same type of emotions in different relationships so the anger is there you have an anger issue first of all it’s basically not because of what that person has said to you because even after this relationship and i go to this relationship and i go to that relationship that emotion still keeps coming up from time to time irrespective of the circumstances so the emotion is what we need to deal with and i personally started doing a self-awareness emotional awareness course and i realized that the emotion itself is not the problem but it’s what you do with it when it comes that becomes the problem and then i start wait listen okay sorry some of us know where you are you are saying this thing so easily but the little things that are really really hard for somebody to understand so first of all what you said was really important was the fact that when it series and a half is not but that’s the situation it’s the emotion that you have yes so in every situation how do i manage it because you can respond to it differently differently yes so let me give you a scenario question so i could say nima could say something now to me and maria and we receive the same information and we respond differently now we’re responding based on how energy is passing through our energy system so i may have issues with anger it’s not nema that is my problem because if he’s not my dad sitting there is yk that said the same thing i will still react the same way so it’s not the person or the circumstance that’s the problem is how i am translating the information that is the problem and that’s something that we all need to find time to start taking notes off to help ourselves so some of us like personally i used to get angry very easily like we’ll be playing now you won’t just know when something has just switched in my head and tracing it back i had grown up in a home where my father used to get angry very easily too you can’t just be gisting with him everybody’s playing and the man has flipped and i never wanted to be like him now i’m realizing that whoa i need to watch myself because i’m becoming like him and the sort of friends i also have who look at me and tell me the truth you say why but that was why why did you that made me start looking inward so the emotions will come every emotion will cross you you the thoughts will pass the envy we pass the jealousy we pass the unforgiveness will pass but what you do with it is what we now start working on so that you become a better human being but it’s a regular feeling that every human being will have let me end here okay so for me growing up um anger was like an emotion you are not allowed to express especially towards those that are older than you so what we did was we piled our anger and then one day you burst over something so tiny and like how dare you but you’re just so angry over a lot of things for me i was very aware that it’s because i was allowed to express myself so in raising my children i’m doing it differently i let them understand that anger is a valid expression when someone does something to make you angry it’s okay to be angry but we need to find a way to express our anger in such a way that you know harmful yes so you in my house you’re allowed to tell someone what you did really made me upset and i’m not in the right frame of mind to talk to you right now can’t give me some time so we do that with the children if there’s no throwing of tantrums if you do that if you feel like screaming at you you can take yourself out of the situation and go and scream and shout whatever in a room you know so you’re allowed to express it but then we give you time to use the words and what i always say to them is also use your words don’t use crying and screaming and use the words that you feel like if you cannot express it right now give yourself time when you can come and tell the person don’t ever feel bad for feeling angry if someone did something you know to make you angry that deserved anger but unless you press yourself in such a way that a person understands and know gives you that respect so that’s what i want to do use your words no tell them i am mad at you right now and i just need some time to make a whole lot of sense yeah i just remembered my my four-year-old 25 next month sent to me let me use the words so if whenever it’s talking to me i’m used to i grew up like that so i can my father can say and i can tell you this he meant no he meant yes i grew up like that and every time i deal with this boy will say mommy say yes oh no he says that all the time i appreciate it all the time when close people in fact not even close if anybody i’ve had an interaction with comes to me and said you offended me i appreciate it because you could have just you know embarrassed me in anger so even if i have a reservation about what you have said i always do apologize first just as you said is an emotion or the way you interpret what i do so we’re having to talk myself and my sisters about something that was a joke so we usually would say ah maybe you’re in a business and you’re online you say i don’t travel meaning that you’re no longer a president and my son used that language with someone and the person fled how do you mean that what because she thought my sister meant you know you don’t you’re not your spirit or something whoa so i was like ah i should not travel not before she depressed you know it’s where your own um exposure ends that that starts so you learn people you learn give people room to understand them it is when i cannot so i i can be angry with you but i’ll build it i can be patiently angry with you that’s the way me i am so i will keep and when i start to tell you the other day the other you’ll be like ah you know i have that time yeah why i build it like that is because i might be mistaken the first time yes so when you do something immediately let me make sense of this so maybe it took me forever i’ve not made sense of it you don’t do another one i’ve not made so it’s now a pattern so eventually the anger it will be a form of please please please you there’s no change or you observe patterns right yes are they do that so i can be angry with you but it will take a while just to get there but i always appreciate it because i know how it works me up about people you know what for someone to tell me my immediately one thing that i think was it praised forward that said that um when you’re angry especially with your kids just think for a second just imagine that these bill gates that gave you his son to intern with you or you know this child you have is so precious that this is not just anybody’s child this is like it’s harry that you’re raising you see you would you be shouting at me like that there’s a way you’re safe no so the idea is that you have to always before you express that anger recalibrate your brain as okay what am i talking to and if you put a picture everybody’s your husband i’m talking to dangote right now and he’s about to he’s still he’s getting doesn’t mean that you won’t express yourself but it helps you to stop before you start expressing explain i know i want to use the husband disclaimer because i see couples with this thing so you believe that this is your person and you can be angry yeah some people use it to justify violence yeah no it’s because of the kind of love yeah i think you should turn it around and value that person so this is what i do if we’re discussing a broken phone for instance or an amount of money i always say to myself is it worth that person’s bitty kakuni there’s nothing that you know you can do that i can let go so our value issue is most practical in marriages this person has probably given you two children some people 10 and in one anger you destroy a working system of marriage you don’t consider the attendance effect all the constant consequences the children the loss of investment of emotions time and everything and on that small flip of emotion you destroy something yeah so this happened to me recently i’m doing some work with someone and the person has a tendency to say things that almost disrespectful you know in english and um i would say a lot of thanks to my husband because he comes with the maturity of we know what is ahead and we know what we’re trying to get don’t let her scatter it just because of the difference in opinion manage it so i’m learning to manage it but i also have a relative that’s like tela exactly what we go will go we start all over again but you know and i understand that and it comes also with eight amateurs i figured i’ve done so much i’ve put in so much where i’m headed is closer than where i’m coming from we’ll manage this um disrespectful behavior then when we get there after we have done sign the dotted lines and everything then i’ll have a 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know i don’t want to be direct but how do you manage and even at work with your friends and when you get angry what are those coping mechanisms you use to address how you how you express your anger all right um what i do is this i get up to a particular thing that says anger is a small madness so do nothing when you’re hungry because what you destroy will be much more than what causes your anger do you understand so basically anytime i’m angry people said can i just as fast as that especially when i’m directing you know it comes with a whole lot of attention there from actors from crew and all that and sometimes they want to drive you crazy so they know that any time i’m hungry i just take a walk they realize that okay i think it’s angry or just take a walk i just kept quiet i just looking at you and said after a while i will not come up with whatever i want to do whatever i decided to do or submit to my stand so most of the time i don’t get to talk back because uh sometimes um i realize that when i talk back to i tend to get angry and my anger is more or less like um when i’m hanging with you you know somebody says something behind me i transfer the aggression easily so it tends to be like when i’m hungry i’ll just keep quiet just take a walk right but we must take a lot of self-discipline to get to that point oh well when did you start is this something you’ve been you were born with or something you worked on i wasn’t born with it you know i just grew up to realize that saying and um as an actor i can easily get angry you know as an actor you get angry and everybody will be begging you because of you know the production and all that and that and they just depart from you but as a director you you at the end of the production so when you get angry everything gets scattered and all that so you have to just make sure you manage that anger the bad director yeah so i also realized that um anger comes from as a negative emotion comes from a deep deep-rooted fear fear that you have lost control of the situation so we as human beings we always like to have expectations of people when i talk there’s a way i expect nima to respond to me and when we’re doing business as the where i respect nima should carry me or do the things and when that doesn’t work the way we have you know calculated in our head we flip and get upset from a place of fear so what i like you now you naturally i was born to keep quiet when i’m upset so i i didn’t have to learn that it was something that just came with me having to deal with a lot of you know angry situations growing up so i sort of adapted to when i am really angry i keep quiet you will notice i just become i keep quiet but so i’m now moving on from there to a place where i now start asking myself quickly what am i afraid of why am i reacting this way what exactly am i afraid of am i afraid i’ve lost control am i afraid that i’m losing this relationship what so when i find why i’m afraid it helps me to quickly in my head calculate the situation and then calm down with your friend or with your spouse or you so if like you’ve lost control of these those because you want them to understand what you’re saying in a certain way that you want it you see a good example of this is when you see mothers and their children crossing the road and it looks like a guy’s about to you can see the fear but when the mother grabs the children [Laughter] i i i have a friend um he gets angry easily on the long run i realize that is that of complex so he uses that to just um to to defend themselves you know anytime he’s is um he’s a bit feeling inferior about something he get
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